Ever worried about how life would be for you or how others would think of you? Are you constantly perturbed about whether you would not be able to stand up to their expectations. If so, you need to first stop for a moment, take a deep breath and think things slowly . Think about the fact of how your actions have been created for the satisfaction of pleasing others and by eventually doing it, what you really enjoy and who you truly want to be becomes a different matter entirely.
I would not say that each and every one of us do engage in actions and choices for the sake of merely pleasing others. It is the fact that people often judge and have different opinions of each other. Such judgements can be so severe sometimes that you become afraid to simply be yourself and no longer recognize what you have become. That can be frightening. Thus it’s best to understand that people are people and each individual who you meet every day, maybe on the street, or on your way home, Anywhere, have their own individual sense of judgement. However, never make that a reason for you to lose your self-esteem and degrade yourself.
Just be Yourself and stay true to who you are. In life, as much as others matter to you, you matter too. Never be afraid to show who you are and what you are capable of. Each of us is unique and within us, there would always be a second self , someone who is strong, yet kind and very determined. Believe in yourself and what you do . Cherish every moment and seize it to make it an unforgettable experience. Guide yourself and reach for help when needed, do not be ashamed, as though we can be knowledgeable ourselves , no one is perfect. Through being yourself, admit to your mistakes, recognize your true potential and yes, although I mentioned to not take judgements too critically, in some point in life, for every action, for every step you take, judgement, persistence and vision matters greatly.
Far and foremost something that I would always believe in is to Be Positive! Irrespective of what outcome it may be or what challenges you have faced, positivity itself can make you a winner everyday.
